Following is a synopsis of our mission in Nauvoo as reported in sacrament meeting on October 11, 2015.
I’ve been
asked to speak to you on inspiring and
faith promoting experiences that we had while serving a mission for the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I could go on and on with that
topic but for your sake I’ve selected five examples.
As I speak,
I invite you to ask yourselves, “What
lack I yet?” What one thing does the Savior want you to change to help you
in your life long quest of preparing to meet God? You may be inspired by something I say, or simply by random
thoughts that come to you which (if they draw you closer to Christ) are the
soft sweet whisperings of the Holy Ghost.
The first experience I want to share
with you is evidence of just how directly we can receive revelation and
guidance from the Holy Ghost.
During the
pageant season in Nauvoo, there are a number of detractors who plague the community with their outward objection to
something. I never really figured them out--why they want to bother us, but
they are there every year, and we do our best to keep them from antagonizing
the guests.
Anyway, the
first summer we were in Carthage ,
I had an angry soul come on one of
my tours. He was harmless until while in the debtor’s cell I began telling the
events surrounding Joseph and Hyrum Smith’s martyrdom. When using Joseph’s name
for the first time, I heard him scoff loudly. Assuming I had misspoken in some way, I looked at the man to
address what was wrong. As I did, the Spirit withdrew and my mind went completely
blank. All I could do was silently pray and ask for assistance and knowledge on
how to respond.
I received
an answer immediately with distinct instructions…"don’t look at him". The delay was only a few seconds and I obediently
proceeded first talking to one side of the room, skipping over the angry guy
and addressing the group on the other side of the room.
However, with
every sentence that I said after
that, I heard a loud obnoxious groan. Fortunately, I was blessed to be able
to completely ignore his annoying sounds. The man left before I was finished so
the other guests were able to hear my final summation and testimony without his
commentary.
Through this experience, I learned that there
is both good and evil in the world,
and the Lord will not abandon us when we’re doing His work.
The
second experience I’m going to relate stood in stark contrast to the first. Again while serving in Carthage ,
an older gentleman came to visit the jail. He looked down trodden even broken
from the onset. In talking to him, I learned that he was born and raised in Carthage , and this was
his first visit to the jail. That’s all I knew about him.
Elder
Johnson and I were giving the tour together this time, and it gave me time to
observe his reaction to the information. I had a feeling that I should bear testimony of Christ and the
power of the atonement. As I did, I noticed him in the corner literally sobbing.
I didn’t
know this man, I hadn’t served him long or even individually, but I felt deep
love and abiding respect for him. I saw this man through God’s eyes and I loved
him. I understood that Heavenly Father
loved him too and that he needed to know that through the atonement of
Christ, he could be forgiven of whatever plagued him.
I also
realized how much all of us are loved even the angry mob that took Joseph’s
life. The atonement is for everyone and it is the healer of all wounds.
Third, in
our last interview with our mission president, President Gibbons, asked us what we learned that surprised us or that
we were not expecting. So that’s
what I want to tell you about next.
When first
called to Nauvoo, I was excited to learn
more about Joseph Smith. In fact, many historians call Nauvoo, Joseph’s
city, Joseph’s temple, Joseph and Hyrum’s final resting place.
Our first
assignment was to serve in Carthage as I
mentioned earlier. This is where the old historic jail still exists and where Joseph
was killed. For months, we studied everything
we could get our hands on concerning the events that led to their deaths and
the aftermath.
Everyday we
related this information to guests. Every day we bore testimony that Joseph was
a prophet of God because over and over we felt the Spirit confirm that fact.
The
surprising part was that through it all,
I came out feeling the love of who? ...not Joseph Smith but Christ.
The story
goes on…
...After four
months in Carthage
we were asked to serve in Nauvoo.
There are about twenty- five different sites there each with different stories
to tell. As I read and studied the material to present, again I was enthralled
with the opportunity to come to know these great people who were willing to
sacrifice their lives and homes for the gospel’s sake.
It was
inspiring to think of their faith and
sacrifice and wonder if I could follow their legacy if the need arose.
Again,
however as I studied and pondered the circumstances and stories of these great
people, I came away feeling ….the Savior’s
love… and the undeniable fact that the Savior lives and loves each of us.
In essence,
I came to understand that the reason
for the shift is that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not
Joseph’s church nor is it any other man or woman’s church regardless of the sacrifices they made for it.
It belongs to the Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ. He
is the chief corner stone. It is His
priesthood and His Church that have been restored upon the earth. He
personally directs the affairs of this church through apostles and prophets
starting with Joseph Smith and it continues today through President Monson.
Therefore, no
matter where missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
are asked to serve, it is the Savior, Jesus
Christ, who they will ultimately come away knowing and having a stronger
love and testimony of as they embark in His service.
Fourth, while
working as a Nauvoo Site missionary, we had to learn to collaborate. With hundreds of thousands of guests each year, it took
teamwork and cooperation to help so many people have a good experience.
President
Uchtdorf gave an excellent example of how to do this in conference a few years
ago. (See Lift Where You Stand) He compared cooperation to the lifting
of a grand piano. The most effective way he said, is for many people to
stand close together and lift. It doesn’t really matter who stands where but
they need to do their part and all do it at the same time.
The
adversary uses derision to block our
ability to work effectively together, and we have a tendency
to, among other things be clumsy in our relationships with others even gossipy,
selfish, and judgmental. So it is
important that we fight those tendencies.
In D&C 38:27 Christ says, “If ye are not one, ye are not mine.”
One missionary in Nauvoo had three simple rules:
Don’t let yourself be offended –just refuse to
pick it up, don’t judge others unkindly since you really don’t know all the
circumstances anyway, and be forgiving--in your mind and also in your heart.
When I find myself needing an attitude
adjustment, it helps me to remember another of President Uchtdorf’s talk not to judge others for sinning differently
than you do. Maybe, you would never do what so and so did, but you are
certainly doing other less than perfect things that so and so would never do.
When we are judgmental, we block the Holy
Ghost from being able to communicate with us. When we see others through God’s
eyes, we invite the Holy Ghost to be with us and guide our thoughts and actions.
I exhort you to catch yourselves when you are feeling critical of others and just…….stop it.
Have you heard of the Pygmalion Effect? The Pygmalion Effect was discovered in the
1950's when an experiment was done. Teachers of youth were told that certain
children were brilliant. Truth was, these children were chosen randomly, but
the result was after years of teaching the selected children outperformed the
other students in response to their teacher's optimistic view of their
potential.
Thus we see that if we treat others
as if they are already the people they can become, we can all be more
successful.
Choose to see the best in others. Treat them
as they may become and not how they currently are. Find their strengths and
focus on those. Love, nurture, empower and then you'll be one with them and the
Savior will claim you and be at your side.
Fifth and last, I’m going to talk about some
of our trials. However before I do, you
have to know how much fun we had. Our mission was a great opportunity to
develop our talents and skills which included giving presentations to both large
and small groups, singing, performing, and playing the piano. All of our prior
skills were enhanced as a missionary. A fun side of both of us came out that we
didn’t even know we had. While being relaxed and serving others, we could put
away the worries of the world and just enjoy the guests. I could tell from
another room when Brother Johnson was giving a tour because I heard laughter. Guests
told me often how they enjoyed his tours. Life was very different, not mundane
but full of variety and adventure, and everything we did had purpose and felt
productive. As a side benefit, we met many wonderful missionaries that will
most likely be lifelong friends.
Now that
you know that, I can say that It was not always
easy and fun. While in Nauvoo, we had to be okay with many things that we were
not used to like being told where to live, when to move, what furniture and
supplies we can borrow and what we couldn’t, what sites to work at on what days
and what hours, what meetings to attend, and how to assist at those meetings. Basically,
our time was not our own. All responsibilities were considered mandatory. As
missionaries, we joked that the only exceptions might be eating and sleeping.
Time and
time again as we chose to be obedient
and not let the circumstances bother us, our hearts were softened and we
felt surprisingly comfortable with the demands. For example, for the evening show
Rendezvous in Old Nauvoo, we were asked to take the roll of George and Agatha—the hen pecked
husband and the lady with no filter on her brain—the one role I hoped I’d never
have to perform. Fortunately, the Lord qualifies those who he calls and as we
put our hearts into the rolls, we found a new way to make it fun and rewarding.
Some of our
trials we describe as the refiner’s fire. As we were asked to do things that
we’d never done before there was of course a learning curve. Sometimes we
excelled and other times not so much.
It’s never fun to have your weaknesses exposed, but it was and still is
a necessary part of the process.
Whether it’s trying to develop our talents,
communication skills, or interpersonal relationships, we must first see our
short comings from someone else’s perspective before we can take measures for
improvement.
There is a
scripture in the Book of Mormon found in Ether12:27 that sums up the solution:
And
if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto
men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if
they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.
Even
though it was painful, I am grateful for the opportunity to learn that in our extreme
humility the Lord is always there to comfort and strengthen us and give us
motivation to hang in there.
Ultimately,
we loved being a tool in the Lord’s hand
which happened as we got out of our comfort zone, and willing did what we were
asked to do … say what we were inspired to say—and have a good attitude about
it.
We
sometimes reminded ourselves that anything we were asked to do was far easier than what was required of the
early saints in Nauvoo. That thought became a great motivator.
In conclusion:
Being rooted in the gospel of Christ is a life long
process. We can never retire from it. I will be eternally grateful for my
experience as a full time missionary. I shudder to think how close we came to
not going at all or cutting our mission short.
I, like
most of you like to see the end from the
beginning. This time, we had to trust the Lord that things would work out
as we left our business and home in the hands of others not knowing for sure
how it would work out. There were trials along the way, but the Lord inspired
and directed us and others and the
holes that opened up in Arvada
were consistently filled. But, we had to trust the Lord and His time table.
What
wonderful lessons to learn in 18 short months. How else could we have learned
these principles so quickly and so thoroughly?
I stand
before you today a different person than
I was 18 months ago being filled with the knowledge that God lives. His son,
Jesus Christ, is our advocate with the Father. Christ is the light, the life,
and the hope of the world. His way is the path that leads to happiness in this
life and eternal life in the world to come.
He has indeed
removed the sting of death. The
atonement is real and powerful enough to bring us back into Heavenly Father’s
presence if we will simply choose His path for we are loved by Diety more than
any of us are capable of or can imagine.
I went on a
mission hoping to bring the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ to others, and
the greatest good I accomplished was
in strengthening my own testimony.
I invite
you to think about my initial invitation to you and consider what you have been inspired to do
differently and then…act on it. Allow the Spirit of God to work within you
and move you to a closer relationship with Him.